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Patrice Critchley-Menor's avatar

Reading this reminds me of going through the same, in a pre-zoom era when I brought kids to the office or to meetings, and they'd smear salami on windows that aren't ours. Ah, my beloved twerps. It was an exhausting time. And you're right about the shoes! I've got no words of wisdom, just empathy and encouragement. You've got this.

Colleen Poyar's avatar

Thank you so much for writing this and putting words to some of what I have been feeling/experiencing for so long, especially in Christian mom circles, much of which hasn't been echoed by much of anyone else. It means so much to feel like I'm not alone.

Patrice Critchley-Menor's avatar

You are not alone, and you can do it!

Elise Boratenski's avatar

Thank you for writing! Modern motherhood is hard in all its iterations; our world has developed in distinct ways to make it harder, whether you’re a SAHM or not. I started part time work again last year at my kids’ homeschool/in person hybrid, and it has been such a joyful experience. Yes-hard, not having time I would have had if I sent them to school and didn’t work, hard to figure out a new normal of doing work at home on the days when I’m not teaching in person. But it has also been a gift that I am so grateful for, and great for my kids to see. Thank you for sharing your gifts and talents with others, and God bless you!

A Fool's avatar

Thank you Sarah. There is nothing the Spirit of Malevolence fears more than a humble, courageous, poor and joyful heart. Keep up the good fight my sister.

A Fool's avatar

Thank you Sarah, you are one of the few Catholic commentators I follow, a bit... I am not online too much. God Bless your heart heart. There is nothing the spirit of malevolence fears more than a courageous, humble, poor and joyful heart! Keep up the good fight, my sister. ...

Meredith McCann's avatar

I am totally unapologetic about the fact that I wanted to be a SAHM to make my life easier. Holiness had nothing to do with it! Combining work and kids is hard!

I feel like it’s an unforgivable sin in America to admit you want your life to be easier and you don’t want to work as hard as possible.

Beth Skinner's avatar

As a SAHM gearing up for entering the working world - I appreciate the post. The grass is always greener on the other side. We need two incomes now as well

trisha's avatar

Love honesty and bravery sharing your laundry picture! I am passionate about not spending my life critiquing others choices and don’t tolerate those who critique mine.